Try Before You Pay
Unlike other vow writing services, you see half of your completed vow before paying anything. No credit card required. No risk. No pressure.
Fill Out the Questionnaire
Answer thoughtful questions about your relationship, your partner, and what you want to promise.
Get Your Preview
Within 48 hours, I'll send you a preview showing the first half of your vow. Completely free.
Pay Only If You Love It
If you love the preview, pay $49 to see the complete vow. If not, you owe me nothing.
Why Choose a Professional Wedding Vow Writing Service?
It's Hard to Write About Your Own Relationship
When you're in the middle of a relationship, it's difficult to see what makes it special. You know you love them, but finding the words to express why and how feels impossible.
I can see your relationship with fresh eyes. I can identify what makes your story unique and help you articulate feelings you've struggled to put into words.
You're Not a Professional Writer
Writing is a skill. You wouldn't do your own wedding flowers if you're not a florist, or bake your own cake if you're not a baker. So why write your own vows if you're not a writer?
I've been writing professionally for 20+ years. I know how to structure vows, create emotional impact, and make words flow naturally when spoken aloud.
You're Running Out of Time
Wedding planning is overwhelming. Between vendors, family drama, and a million decisions, vow writing often gets pushed to the last minute.
Hand it off to me. You answer a questionnaire (30 minutes), and I'll deliver your vows within 48 hours. One less thing to stress about.
You Want Them to Sound Like You
The biggest fear about hiring a vow writer? That they'll sound generic or fake, like they came from someone else.
I pay close attention to your voice. How you write in the questionnaire, what makes you laugh, what moves you. Your vows will sound authentically like you—just the most eloquent version of you.
What You Get
Personalized to Your Story
Every vow I write is completely custom. I read your questionnaire carefully, think about what makes your relationship unique, and craft vows that reflect your specific story—not generic templates.
Written to Sound Like You
I pay attention to your voice, tone, and style. If you're funny and casual, your vows will be too. If you're poetic and emotional, that's what I'll capture. You won't sound like someone else.
Perfect Length
Most vows are 2-3 minutes when read aloud (approximately 300-400 words). This is the sweet spot—meaningful without being so long that people lose focus. You can request shorter or longer if you prefer.
Easy to Read Aloud
Your vows are formatted for easy reading during the ceremony. Clear structure, natural rhythm, and words that flow smoothly when spoken. You'll feel confident reading them.
One Free Revision
After seeing the complete vow, if something doesn't feel quite right, just email me. I'll adjust it to better match what you're looking for. One revision is included with every vow.
Meet Your Vow Writer
Sarah Whitman
Hi! I'm Sarah. I've been writing professionally for over 20 years, but wedding vows became my specialty about a decade ago when a friend asked for help with hers.
I fell in love with the challenge: capturing someone's deepest feelings, honoring their unique story, and putting words to something as profound as a marriage promise. It's intimate, meaningful work, and I feel honored every time someone trusts me with their vows.
I've written vows for hundreds of couples—traditional and modern, serious and funny, first marriages and second chances. My work has been featured in The Knot, Martha Stewart Weddings, and Style Me Pretty.
But more important than any publication: I've helped couples who felt stuck, overwhelmed, or inarticulate find words that truly express their love. That's what I'm here to do for you.
What Couples Say
"Sarah captured exactly what I wanted to say but couldn't figure out how. My vows were perfect—emotional but not cheesy, personal but not TMI. Everyone at our wedding cried. Worth every penny."
— Emily R.
"I'm not a writer. I was so stressed about my vows. Sarah made it easy—I just answered her questions, and she did the rest. They sounded like me, just way more eloquent. My now-husband said they were the best vows he'd ever heard."
— Michael T.
"The 'try before you pay' thing convinced me to give it a shot. When I saw the preview, I immediately paid. Sarah took our messy, complicated love story and made it beautiful. I'm so glad we didn't try to write these ourselves."
— Jessica M.
Common Questions
Will my vows sound authentic, or will they sound like they came from a stranger?
They'll sound like you—just the most articulate version of you. I pay close attention to your voice, your tone, and your style. If you're funny, your vows will be funny. If you're poetic, they'll be poetic. The goal is to sound authentically like you, not like a generic template.
How is this different from using ChatGPT or another AI tool?
AI doesn't understand the weight of what you're promising. It can't tell which details matter and which are filler. It doesn't know how to create emotional impact or structure vows for maximum meaning. I do. I've written hundreds of vows for real couples. I know what works and what doesn't.
What if I don't like the vows?
You see a preview before paying. If the preview doesn't resonate, you don't pay. If you pay and then realize something needs adjustment, one revision is included. I want you to feel great about your vows.
Can my partner use this service too?
Absolutely! Each person fills out their own questionnaire. I'll make sure your vows complement each other without being identical.
When should I order?
I recommend 2-4 weeks before your wedding. That gives you time to practice reading them aloud and feel comfortable with them. But if your wedding is sooner, choose rush delivery for 24-hour turnaround.