Question 1

How does your vow writing service work?

Accepted Answer

You'll answer a thoughtful questionnaire about your relationship and what you want to promise. I'll craft personalized vows that capture your unique story and voice. You receive a preview within 48 hours (or 24 hours with rush delivery). Once you're happy, you pay $49 to unlock the complete vow.

Question 2

What if I don't like what you write?

Accepted Answer

You pay nothing. The preview is completely free, so there's zero risk. If the vows don't feel right to you, simply don't purchase them. You're not obligated to buy anything.

Question 3

How long will my vows be?

Accepted Answer

Your vows will be 2-3 minutes when read aloud (approximately 300-400 words). You can request shorter (1-2 minutes) or longer (3-4 minutes) vows when you fill out the questionnaire.

Question 4

Do I need to provide a credit card upfront?

Accepted Answer

No! The questionnaire is completely free to fill out. You only provide payment information after reading your preview and deciding you want the complete vow.

Question 5

When will I receive my vows?

Accepted Answer

Standard delivery is 48 hours. If your wedding is coming up soon, you can choose rush delivery (24 hours) for an additional $25 when you submit your questionnaire.

Question 6

What if I want revisions?

Accepted Answer

One free revision is included with your purchase. If something doesn't feel quite right after reading the complete vow, just email me and I'll adjust it to better match what you're looking for.

Question 7

Can you write vows for same-sex weddings?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely! I've written beautiful vows for couples of all orientations and backgrounds. Love is love, and every couple deserves vows that honor their unique relationship.

Question 8

Will my vows sound generic or templated?

Accepted Answer

No. I don't use templates or AI to write your vows. Each vow is crafted from scratch based on the specific stories, memories, and promises you share with me. The goal is for your vows to sound unmistakably like YOU.

Question 9

How do I know you're qualified?

Accepted Answer

I have an MFA in Creative Writing from Columbia University and 20 years of experience writing vows for over 2,000 couples. My work has been featured in The Knot, Martha Stewart Weddings, and Style Me Pretty.

Question 10

What if I'm not good at expressing my feelings?

Accepted Answer

That's exactly why I'm here. My questionnaire will guide you through the right questions, and I'll transform your honest answers into beautiful, heartfelt vows. You don't need to be a writer—you just need to be genuine.

Frequently Asked Questions

The Basics

How does "try before you pay" work?

How long until I get my vow?

What if I don't like it?

How long will my vow be?

Are you a real person, or is this AI?

The Writing Process

Do you really read every questionnaire yourself?

How do you make it sound like me?

Will my vow be unique, or have others used similar words?

Why not just use ChatGPT or another AI tool?

Is my information private?

Pricing & Payment

How much does it cost?

When do I pay?

What if I want changes after I pay?

Are there any hidden fees?

Logistics

Can my partner use this service too?

What if English isn't my first language?

When should I order?

Can I use this for a vow renewal or commitment ceremony?

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